Teen creates popular Website for rape victims
By: ADRIENNE A. AGUIRRE - Staff Writer | ∞
Rick Timmins, a student at La Costa Canyon High School who started a program to prevent rape, at his school Thursday.
Robert Benson/For the North County Times
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ENCINITAS ---- An Encinitas teenager has turned to the Internet to provide support and comfort to sexual assault victims .
Seventeen-year-old Rick Timmins says he was inspired to set up his "Stop Rape" Web site ---- essentially an online support group for sexual assault victims ---- after he was shocked by the lack of support for a friend who was sexually assaulted at a party nearly two years ago.
"When she went to look for support and stuff, she didnít have it," he said. "I was really surprised by the amount of people who didnít believe her."
Rick said he decided he wanted to do something to help his friend and others in her situation, to provide victims with a safe place where they could get emotional support.
"I just wanted her and other victims to have a place to go and get support and advice," he said. "I just wanted people to have a forum to talk.
"I realized why only 40 percent of sexual assault cases are reported ---- because nobody believes the victims," he said. "Even their own parents donít believe them. They say they are lying or itís their fault."
Rick created the site through MySpace.com, a popular Internet destination where people can create their own Website to post photos, send e-mails and instant messages, and post comments.
Law enforcement officials have warned parents to monitor the MySpace sites of their children because the Web site has been known to attract sex offenders looking for young victims. Rick has turned the tables on them ---- using the site against predators ---- said James Teague, a teacher at La Costa Canyon High School, where Rick graduated last week.
"He did this of his own will," Teague said. "Itís pretty moving as an adult to see and hear a student take that up as their own cause."
Although there are rape hotlines, Rick said, the person on the line may not know what the victim is going through. He said his Web site provides a space where victims can communicate with other victims confidentially while they work through their trauma.
"This group has given me more hope than I could have ever imagined," one girl wrote. "I feel more comfortable here disclosing my feelings than anywhere else."
Rick said he knew there had to be more victims needing a place to turn, but even he was surprised at how many people turned to his site for help and comfort and courage. After just three months, the group had more than 1,000 members and was growing by about 16 members each day, he said. Today, there are nearly 7,600 people using Rickís site in the United States, Canada and Great Britain.
Rick, who manages the site, said the stories posted on his site are heartbreaking. Victims talk about experiencing flashbacks of their assault, anxiety attacks and severe depression.
Rick said friends and family of victims can visit his site to learn more about how they can help their loved ones. He said teenage boys have even logged on to get advice on how to support girlfriends who have been victimized.
Rick is now using his site to raise money for the Rape Abuse and Incest National Network, commonly known as RAINN. Through Rickís Website, people can buy "Stop Rape" bracelets for around $3 each depending on the quantity purchased.
Rick said he has raised more than $600 to support rape victims through RAINN.
He will be leaving soon for the University of Southern California, where he plans to continue his fight.
"If people were more aware, it would help a lot," he said. "Just spread the word."
To visit the Stop Rape or buy a bracelet, go to http://groups.myspace.com/stoprape.
Contact staff writer Adrienne A. Aguirre at (760) 740-3526 or aaguirre@nctimes.com. To comment, go to nctimes.com.
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maria wrote on Jun 19, 2006 8:42 AM:Hey i think that what you did was very brave and thanks to you now many people that feel lonely or feel that nobody id there for them noe they have a place for them to go and like you said get support!!!
Jessica wrote on Jul 18, 2006 11:57 AM:I am a 17 year old girl from MA and I am a member of the Stop Rape group and have been for about a year now. This group has helped tremendously and Rick is really a great guy. This was the first of many groups that I joined on MySpace and have found solace there. It is important that we keep seeing positive things like this on the news to know that it is okay to talk about things such as sexual assault and that people are still doing good things in the world despite the bad. Thank you for posting this in the paper. I believe that all sexual assault survivors that read this article found comfort in seeing that people really do care. I know I did. Jessica
Brittney wrote on Sep 3, 2006 6:00 PM:I really love this sight. It's really nice to have a page that I can go to and express how I feel were no one will be judgmental about it because almost all of them have had to deal with the same situation, more or less. It's really great that he takes his own time out of his buisy scheduals to help people that were traumatized, and I really appreciate all he's done for this.
Bob wrote on Feb 21, 2007 1:11 PM:Thanks for the website. I just found out that my 23 yr old nephew was raped at the age 15 by an older and much larger man. My nephew has had a messed up life ever since. I asked my sister (his mother) about his destructive behavior and was told of the rape. He was embaraased and didn't want anyone to know but has confided to his mother that the rape occured and has tormented him psyhcologically. I was told that the man has raped numerous teenagers in this town and all are afraid to come forth. It is a small town in western NY where violence, drugs and poverty are rampant. I am a Chritian man and feel rage at the thought of what this has done to my nephew and want to try to bring this individual to justice. Is there anything that could be done to corral this guy and bring him to justice. I am 400 miles away and need some advice or suggestions. Thanks. Please send a response if you wish
tahni wrote on May 7, 2007 11:08 AM: came across this sight, I'm doing a project for school on sexual abuse. I myself have been abused and it is a hard thing to do, the project I mean. I go to a school, where there is about 20 people from the Middle East. We think that we don't get a lot of support (I know its not a lot), but in the Middle East, girls can get mordered for being raped. Rick, I just wanna let you know that you have a done a great job, people like you make victims like me wanna keep on living!
Jessi LaCosta wrote on Oct 12, 2007 9:51 PM:I just relocated to SD from the East Coast. While it was many years ago that I was sexually assaulted - it's affects are always a close reminder. Kudos to you for reporting on a brave person - and if there is anything I can do to help - I will - I remember what it was like - 16 years old - and no support - so now as an adult I help where I can. By the way the CCS in San Diego is great. I am a volunteer there.
kelsey wrote on Nov 19, 2007 2:59 PM:i think what you have done is very wonderful but how do you know that this website is not another way for sex affenders to talk to people. most of these people want someone to talk to and what happens if they start talking to the wrong person. this is also a good way for them to attract children or even older people. they need someone to lean on for help and someone could easily pretend that they are a friend. do you understand where i am coming from. i am coming from experience because i have too been sexually assualted. i met the man over the internet he pretended to be 15 and made up stories to make him sound like he was a nice 15 year old guy. this happened a while ago but i would never want someone to have to go through what i went through.
Kaitlynn wrote on Jan 16, 2008 11:19 AM:hey i think this site is great. i mean i totally agree with you. most cases are not reported because people dont believe them. im just happy that people out there actually care about rape and rape victims. i mean i never thought that it would happen to me or anyone i know. but infact it happened to one of my really good friends. and it really does happen and it could happen to you. i just hope that everyone stays safe and aware that it is out there. and i just wanted to say thank you again.
kaitlin wrote on Mar 26, 2008 11:59 AM:Hey, I love your site...it's personally so awesome and helpful for me.I was raped a few years ago....I thought my life would never be the same again. And I still do. But I just want to thank you for caring so much to make this site, just to help others, make a differnce in this world. I think you are so down to earth and just so grounded and caring!
Katie wrote on Apr 13, 2008 10:43 AM:I just love to know that theres people out there that do care. May God bless all the victims of this horrible thing. And may he bring peace to your minds and your bodys. And thanks for caring sooo much.!.!
sammy wrote on Sep 4, 2008 8:15 AM:everyone would love to be told that this world is a safe one but to tell yoou the truth it might not always be. when i was 3yrs old i was raped by someone who was suppose to be protecting me from people like that i will never forget that night even though it was so many year ago. my father was that horrible man he was suppose to protect me but he choose the other way instesd my father was given 50 yrs behind bars cause i was the youngest person to ever set in one of the court house chairs i know that many people believed that i was the bravest little 3 yr old that they had ever seen and that has stayed with me to this day i am now 20 yrs old and i believe that no matter how young or small the person is they can over come the fear of the other person getting them i was scared even though i might not have showed it the man that i was persicuting was my own father the man who cause me to get stiches where no girl should have to i had to stay at the hospital for almost 3 weeks because i was so yooung and i was taken from my mommy cause of him.
all i am trying to say is that if a 3 yr old child can tell on her own father and get over the fear of him hurting her agian then maybe all of the other girls and boys can come forward to tell their story infront of the judge.
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