'Vagina Monologues' aims to raise awareness, funds

By: JEFF PACK - Staff Writer | Wednesday, February 13, 2008 1:02 PM PST

"The Vagina Monologues"
When: 7:30 p.m. today
Where: Old Town Temecula Community Theater, 42051 Main St., Temecula
Tickets: sold out
Info: (866) 653-8696

It's hard to argue against the motivation of Patti Drew and the rest of women who will perform Even Ensler's "The Vagina Monologues" at the Old Town Temecula Community Theater tonight.

While some critics have insisted the only reason Drew and company are staging the play is to be shocking, offensive and crude, Drew said tonight's performance is first and foremost a benefit for Safe Alternatives For Everyone, an agency in our community whose goal is to prevent domestic violence. It is also linked directly to the V-Day movement, an annual event orchestrated to call attention to violence committed against women and girls.

"I decided to do this because of what's happened in the community in the past year," Drew said. "The murders in Murrieta and Temecula, all of the violence against women in our area, it really got me going."

Writer Eve Ensler wrote the first draft of "The Vagina Monologues" in 1996 following interviews she conducted with 200 women about their views on sex, relationships, and violence against women. In the show, a varying number of women recite the monologues, both dramatic and comic, about topics surrounding the vagina, including sex, love, rape, menstruation and more. According to the V-Day Web site, the play addresses the topics "with humor and grace, the piece celebrates womens' sexuality and strength."

Every February and March, Ensler allows theater groups around the world to perform her play royalty-free so that all proceeds can benefit local anti-violence charities for women and children. Each year, she writes a new piece for what's called "The Spotlight" monologue. Last year's addition dealt with women in conflict, such as their involvement in Iraq. This year's monologue, which was delivered to play-reading groups about three weeks ago, focuses on the women of Hurricane Katrina. The piece will be the final monologue of the evening.

"The audience is going to laugh, cry; there's sadness, there's anger," Drew said. "The audience is going to feel uncomfortable, because they're going to hear things that you don't usually hear outside of your personal comfort zone. But all of the monologues, all the stories that we tell onstage, actually happened. These are women's stories."

Critics have said that the show promotes male-bashing, exploits the female body and its ties to Valentine's Day is an overly-aggressive attempt to cast a shadow on relationships between the opposite sexes. Locally, some community members addressed the Temecula City Council, expressing opposition to the content of the production and criticized the event being held at the city-run facility.

According to Drew, the city did approach her in regards to the content of the play, but at that point, there was little that could even be discussed about editing the performance.

"When I was called by the city, I let them know I was in a contract and it's very specific," she said. "I can't delete and I can't alter the play and I'm certainly going to honor that contract. Also, I don't think there was anything that needed to be deleted.

"People have to realize, I didn't do this so much because I wanted to do this rabble-rousing show," she said. "I did it because of the V-Day movement and this movement benefits domestic abuse."

Although there was no corporate sponsorship for the show, Drew acknowledged somewhat of a backlash toward the beneficiary, Safe Alternatives For Everyone, and its executive director, Melissa Donaldson.

"Melissa was taking quite a bit of heat," she said. "I know some sponsors and groups were not very happy with the decision to push forward with the play as a benefit for S.A.F.E."

With all the controversy, Drew insists that the attention has brought awareness to the cause and trusts that those who attend the show will appreciate the production and know what to expect.

"I have seen a level of sophistication develop in our community in the past few years," she said. "The good thing about this is (the critics) have made people very aware of what they are going to hear at the show. Nobody is going to be surprised."

According to Drew, the controversy surrounding the play has been a benefit the production. Tonight's performance has been a sellout for the past couple of weeks, and Wednesday night's dress rehearsal was expected to draw a big first-come, first-serve crowd.

As for the possibility of a protest before the show or a negative reaction to the production when it's over, Drew feels confident she has done the right thing.

"As I said before, everyone's entitled to their own opinion," she said. "And (the critics) used theirs at the city council meeting and I'm using mine on Feb. 14 at the Old Town Temecula Community Theater."

Drew looked into doing the show last year, but due to time constraints, it just didn't work out.

"It just didn't come to fruition," she said. "By the time they approved me, with very little time needed to push it ahead, (Temecula Valley Players) had already moved on to another production."

This year, Drew and the Temecula Valley Players were prepared.

"When we held auditions, it was the biggest response we'd ever had," she said. "We had 27 women show up, half of which I had never seen or heard of before in my life. In this cast, there are four or five women who are actual survivors of domestic violence."

The performance is bare-bones, there are no costumes or props or scene changes, just the women and the stories.

"This is more storytelling, than acting and we've had very little rehearsal," Drew said. "I think it will make it more real. I asked the ladies to memorize their lines. In the script, they say to use cards, but to me, that puts a block between you and the audience."

"The Vagina Monologues"

When: 7:30 p.m. today

Where: Old Town Temecula Community Theater, 42051 Main St., Temecula

Tickets: sold out

Info: (866) 653-8696

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Tim wrote on Feb 13, 2008 8:50 PM:Why is this show being permitted to go on with the blatant male bashing? If the genders were reversed, and females were being bashed, I promise you it would not be allowed to be presented. Why the double standard? And what is that telling your sons -- that they belong to a flawed gender, and that it's appropriate to bash them just because they happened to be born male? You should be ashamed. Sexism is sexism, even if it's directed at the dreaded male

Gene T. wrote on Feb 14, 2008 8:01 AM:Last night, my wife Shannon and I attended the dress rehersal for this play. From a male point of view, yes, it was a little uncomfortable at times, but that's what good art does: it makes you think. However, the impression I got was one of celebration in the face of disapproval, violence and repression. The human spirit was what was really celebrated, not merely vaginas. If it wasn't sold out, I would recommend that citizens watch this, protesters be damned.

Gene T. wrote on Feb 14, 2008 8:10 AM:I challenge Tim to show me the "blatant male bashing" involved in this production of the vagina monologues. I attended last night. After the dress rehersal finished, I was left wondering if I missed the male bashing I heard so much about. The closest it ever came was when a woman spoke of her husband that slept around. Since when does criticizing a "wandering husband" equal male bashing? ...

Gary in Winchester wrote on Feb 14, 2008 9:58 AM:The play is just further proof that SAFE is a ... group that promotes DV toward men. SAFE has been short sighted in being involved in this although they may get $7,000 from this performance they are exposeing what they really are about and beating up on many Men of good will that will not be supporting them in the future. And as a citizen of this town I will exercixe my right of free speech and let the city counsel and businesses that I frequent how I feel next time I hear of them supporting this ... group, SAFE.

One of the proud performers wrote on Feb 14, 2008 4:16 PM:Oh Gary, sweetheart - please, I know it's difficult but you should read the meaning behind S.A.F.E. -- It stands for Safe Alternatives For Everyone... and is neither sexist nor female exclusive. The organization is a very important part of our community. S.A.F.E. is committed to
providing services for children,
youth, and families who have
experienced or are at risk
of abuse or violence.
The Play's purpose is to stop the violence through education and dialogue. The performance in Temecula's purpose is to raise funds for S.A.F.E --SAFE ALTERNATIVES FOR EVERYONE.

It would be wonderful if those critics who think this play is male bashing would actually read or watch the play in its entirety. Look at the mission and purpose of the play, S.A.F.E. and the performers before bashing it. Silence breeds ignorance, and ignorance will never solve a very serious social problem of the world.

I for one, am very proud this play has opened so much necessary dialogue in the Temecula Valley. GO TVP AND PATTI DREW!

Roberto1 wrote on Feb 14, 2008 8:06 PM:sex sells...and this is a little like a traffic accident with lots of blood. (nobody can go by without slowing down to take a look)....good job selling tickets!

Huh? wrote on Feb 15, 2008 1:37 PM:Recently a well known Stand Up Comic performed at one of local Casinos. I attended along with my husband. I am not a prude and can tell an off color joke as well as anyone. However, this man said things that made me feel uncomfortable enough to leave. Talk about female bashing. It is an understatement. So my point being that if the Vagina Monologues were male bashing as some believe then it's finally a dose of their own medicine. So too bad, get over it.

dickey wrote on Feb 15, 2008 3:29 PM:propose an all male show called the
'PETER PRINCIPAL" OR "PENIS PATTER"

Bill wrote on Feb 16, 2008 5:13 PM:I like it when a woman feels good about her vagina. It shows she is self assured about her body.

Shannon wrote on Feb 18, 2008 9:54 AM:Wow... the uniformed opinions without any real knowledge or proof amazes me.

Tim - did you even see the show or are your opinions of male-bashing something someone else told you? If that is the case then you are sadly misinformed.

Gary - And what proof did you find that SAFE has any agenda of male bashing? I see none but then again you offered no proof that there is any. If uplifting women (in this ONE event) constitutes male bashing then you are the sexist. A celebration of women doe snot need to be seen as something against men.

If either of you had actually attended this wonderful play (a celebration of women & an unveiling of serious pretty serious issues) then you would have seen that it was an uplifting, informative & entertaining event. I laughed, I cried, and I even I learned of the plight of women in other countries & situations.

To condemn the SAFE organization, whose sole purpose is to provide safe alternatives to ALL (MEN, women, & children) from being trapped, beaten, and even molested & raped in abusive households based on heresay and faulty information is truly a sad thing.

Next time do you homework, get better information, perhaps see for yourself before making such ridiculous comments.

Shannon wrote on Feb 18, 2008 10:12 AM:Roberto - This had very little to do with "SEX" as you so eloquently put it. It had more to do with women's issues around the world, a celebration and life from the female point of view. It was never meant as some T & A or a Playboy-esque event meant to raise money by exploiting some perverted sexual desires or the like.

It sold out for many reasons and not the fact that "sex" might involved. The VAGINA is not merely a sexual object as a few in this community would have everyone believe. It is just a word. The use of the word itself is synonomous for WOMAN.

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